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Carol Pater Obituary

Carol Pater, born on December 27, 1949 in Philadelphia, PA, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 12, 2025.  Carol was a woman of deep kindness, strong family devotion, and quiet strength.  Her warm presence, steady support and generous heart touched all who knew and loved her.


She is survived by her children, Lawrence (Larry) W. Pater, Jr. and Tricia A. McLaughlin (Brian); and her beloved granddaughter, Madison Rose McLaughlin.  She is also survived by her sisters Christine Cavanaugh, Rita Steffens (Ron), Regina DeGennaro (Dan), Marie Marr (Bob), and her brothers Joseph Cavanaugh (Marianne) and Patrick Cavanaugh (Marie).  Carol leaves behind many cherished nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.


She is predeceased by her beloved husband, Lawrence (Larry) W. Pater, Sr.; her parents, Joseph and Anne T. Cavanaugh; her sisters Lyn VanLeer and Theresa Miller; her brother Michael Cavanaugh; her nephew Joseph E. Cavanaugh; and her brother-in-law William VanLeer.


A memorial service to honor Carol's life will be held on Saturday, December 13, 2025, at Polhemus Cremation Services in West Creek, NJ, from 12:00 PM to 3:00 PM.


In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that you plant a tree or perennial plant in memory of Carol and Larry Pater, a tribute that reflects the love, growth and enduring roots they shared together.

To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Carol, please visit our Tree Store.

Carol Pater, born on December 27, 1949 in Philadelphia, PA, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 12, 2025.  Carol was a woman of deep kindness, strong family devotion, and quiet strength.  Her warm presence, steady support and generous heart touched all who knew and loved her.


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Events

Memorial Gathering and Service

Saturday, December 13, 2025

12:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Polhemus Cremation Services

203 Main Street West Creek, NJ 08092

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